Tuesday, 30 August 2011

To my future wife

I found myself thinking about you today. Wondering where you are, what you�re thinking and doing. It hurts a little not to be with you, but I can live with that for now, knowing that we�ll spend the rest of our lives together.

 I am writing you this letter so that you understand better the road we are going to travel and where we are heading as God's creatures who are burdened by the Almighty in this temporal world. So that we will be better prepared to mutually understand, to mutually empathize and to be grateful for what have been outlined by God for our family.

 I think a lot about chastity � modesty and purity in my thoughts, words, the way we dress and act � how it�s a building block for a perfect love that casts out all fear. And sex before marriage brings many fears � pregnancy, STDs, the emotional scars associated with broken relationships. So, in the search for perfect love, it only makes sense to practice chastity and wait until you�re married to give yourself to the person you love. And --- OUR marriage will bring with it the and build our future together.

My future wife, if one day I don't make you happy like all other days , forgive me. But as a husband, I will always try my best to be the best!
My future wife, you know I'm not a perfect person in every way. So help me improve it with your advices, your criticisms and anything that can make the obedience to God increases everyday.
When God blesses Us
Teach our children that it is far honourable to fail than to cheat...
Teach them to have faith even if everyone tells them they are wrong...
Teach them to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with the tough.
Teach them to be angry when the truth is humiliated, teach them to fight against any oppression on anyone. Advices them to help each other to continue to be obedient to Allah and His prophet.

Maybe I am expecting too much from you, too demanding on you and asking what might be too heavy for you. But believe me, I as a husband will try to be a good companion, a loyal listener to your inputs and advices, to help each other to continue to be obedient to Allah and His prophet!

You may have been waiting and looking for me all the while. You may be starting today. Either way, we�ll know when we�ve found each other; we�ll be together for the rest of our lives and the wait will have been worthwhile.

All My Love,

Your Future Husband


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